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How Pregnancy Made Me Listen Again

Posted on February 9, 2019March 15, 2019 by juliamd

Medical school teaches us open-ended questions are best. We are told to avoid interrupting patients, allow them get their whole story out before we jump in—to prompt them only with nods or gentle “hmmm’s” and maybe a “tell me more.”

But years of practice can erode this open style. Experience focuses our questioning to what we need to make decisions. Time pressures force impatience. A building waiting room adds urgency. We become more directive with patients. We begin to trust our own shaping of the narrative, not theirs. We just need to get to the point.

I had succumbed to this myself, especially by practicing in Acute Care settings. 

But my last pregnancy brought me back to my listening roots.

More in my latest for Doximity.

2 thoughts on “How Pregnancy Made Me Listen Again”

  1. Stepan Bilynskyy says:
    April 2, 2021 at 4:52 pm

    Dear Julia, I am writing a PowerPoint presentation for the webinar, to be tough to our local physicians and came across your beautiful watercolor and article How Pregnancy Made Me Listen Again. I am asking your permission to use it in our presentation; it can be done in collaboration with the college of family physicians of Manitoba and the Manitoba Institute for Patient Safety. Here the quote I would like to use in the initial slide: “Medical school teaches us open-ended questions are best. We are told to avoid interrupting patients, allow them get their whole story out before we jump in—to prompt them only with nods or gentle “hmmm’s” and maybe a “tell me more.”
    But years of practice can erode this open style. Experience focuses our questioning to what we need to make decisions. Time pressures force impatience. A building waiting room adds urgency. We become more directive with patients. We begin to trust our own shaping of the narrative, not theirs. We just need to get to the point.”

    1. juliamd says:
      May 5, 2021 at 5:51 pm

      That is fine – thanks!

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